someone or something that causes hopelessness: He is the despair of his mother.
verb (used without object)
3.
to lose, give up, or be without hope (often followed by of ): to despair of humanity.
verb (used with object)
4.
Obsolete. to give up hope of.
Origin: 1275–1325;Middle Englishdespeir (noun), despeiren (v.) < Anglo-Frenchdespeir,Old Frenchdespoir (noun), despeir-, tonic stem of desperer (v.) < Latindēspērāre to be without hope, equivalent to dē-de- + spērāre to hope, derivative of spēs hope
Related forms
de·spair·er, noun
self-de·spair, noun
un·de·spaired, adjective
Synonyms 1. gloom, disheartenment. Despair, desperation, despondency, discouragement, hopelessness refer to a state of mind caused by circumstances that seem too much to cope with. Despair suggests total loss of hope, which may be passive or may drive one to furious efforts, even if at random: in the depths of despair; courage born of despair.Desperation is usually an active state, the abandonment of hope impelling to a furious struggle against adverse circumstances, with utter disregard of consequences: an act of desperation when everything else had failed.Despondency is a state of deep gloom and disheartenment: a spell of despondency.Discouragement is a loss of courage, hope, and ambition because of obstacles, frustrations, etc.: His optimism yielded to discouragement.Hopelessness is a loss of hope so complete as to result in a more or less permanent state of passive despair: a state of hopelessness and apathy.
early 14c., from O.Fr. desperer "lose hope, despair," from L. desperare "to despair," from de- "without" + sperare "to hope," from spes "hope" (see speed). Noun replaced native wanhope. Related: Despairingly.