Some value a big house and yard, while others cannot abide a city without a decent opera or good Thai food.
As to the permanent solution, try to avoid a short time schedule by which the sides will not be able to abide.
Putin cannot abide the implicit challenge that Khodorkovsky at liberty would represent.
Old English abidan, gebidan "remain, wait, delay, remain behind," from ge- completive prefix (denoting onward motion; see a- (1)) + bidan "bide, remain, wait, dwell" (see bide). Originally intransitive (with genitive of the object: we abidon his "we waited for him"); transitive sense emerged in Middle English. Meaning "to put up with" (now usually negative) first recorded 1520s. Related: Abided; abiding. The historical conjugation is abide, abode, abidden, but the modern formation is now generally weak.