butter someone up

To butter someone up means to praise or compliment someone to excess, as in Mark tried to butter his math teacher up in the hopes it would help his grade. 

You can also keep butter and up together in a sentence, as in I think Haley is trying to butter up her dad so that he’ll drive us to the airport tomorrow morning. 

Butter someone up is often used to indicate that a person is flattering someone because they have something to gain and they don’t actually mean what they are saying.

Example: Lisa buttered up her dad so he wouldn’t be mad when he found out she broke the window. 

The first records of the phrase butter someone up come from around 1700, although it was originally used without the word up. The source of this phrase is unknown.

How is butter related to flattery? We don’t know. We can imagine that giving someone a lot of praise is figuratively similar to spreading a lot of butter on a slice of bread to make the bread tasty, but there’s no evidence that this is where butter someone up comes from.

What are some synonyms for butter someone up?

• brown-nose
• flatter
• charm

What are some words that share a root or word element with butter someone up? 

• butter
• someone
• up

What are some words that often get used in discussing butter someone up?

• flattery
• compliment
• praise
• charm

Butter someone up is used to mean someone is lavishing praise on another person in the hopes of getting something out of it.

The support or disagreement with issues here is not based upon concepts, ideas and merits but based upon the liking of the political party a particular person supports or the liking of a personality one wants to butter up. This is a very immature approach to things.

— Navdeep Singh (@SinghNavdeep) December 24, 2020

One thing I don’t miss about covering sports, people blatantly trying to butter up sources with ridiculous Twitter takes

— Jeremy Schneider (@J_Schneider) April 18, 2019

Want to butter up Dad? Bring him a mozzarella stick when he's on a lunchtime work call. My 10 year old gets it.

— Rory Cooper (@rorycooper) September 18, 2020

Which of the following words is a synonym of butter someone up?

A. insult
B. flatter
C. trick
D. befriend