to express sympathy with a person who is suffering sorrow, misfortune, or grief (usually fol. by with): to condole with a friend whose father has died.
–verb (used with object)
2.
Obsolete. to grieve with.
Origin: 1580–90; < LL condolēre, equiv. to con-con-+ dolēre to feel pain; akin to dolor
[kuh
n-dohl] 
verb, -doled, -dol⋅ing.