Just what every girl dreams of: a remote control, a red dress, and a promise of certain destruction in the event of infidelity.
infidelity is "a way of taking control and not letting the woman leave them; to not have it be her decision."
Are we talking about a single act of infidelity, or is it someone who has always done this and just got nailed this time?
c.1400, "want of faith, unbelief in religion; false belief, paganism;" also (early 15c.) "unfaithfulness or disloyalty to a person" (originally to a sovereign, by 16c. to a lover or spouse), from French infidélité, from Latin infidelitatem (nominative infidelitas) "unfaithfulness, faithlessness," noun of quality from infidelis (see infidel).