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[fi-lan-der] /fɪˈlæn dər/
verb (used without object)
(of a man) to make love with a woman one cannot or will not marry; carry on flirtations.
Origin of philander
1675-85; < Greek phílandros one who loves (of a woman, loving her husband); see philo-, andro-; later used in fiction as a proper name for a lover, and apparently mistaken as “a man who loves”
Related forms
philanderer, noun
trifle, dally, womanize. Unabridged
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Examples from the web for philandering
  • The same is largely true of the old rake's notorious philandering.
  • Many also admire her for holding together a family that includes a philandering husband.
  • Plummer has hated her philandering husband for years and wanted to leave him.
  • Soon enough, the new bride is expecting, and her philandering husband repents.
  • When a philandering father gives him his wedding ring, a writer revels in its power and what it means for his own life.
  • Or it was ribald, recalling the philandering that drove him out of the race last spring.
  • He marries again, but when he is caught philandering, she dumps him.
  • Their philandering has come in various guises and with various degrees of legitimacy.
  • Her philandering husband had abused and humiliated her to the breaking point.
  • She maintains they are happily married despite his philandering, but has admitted once throwing an ax at him.
British Dictionary definitions for philandering


(intransitive) often foll by with. (of a man) to flirt with women
Derived Forms
philanderer, noun
philandering, noun, adjective
Word Origin
C17: from Greek philandros fond of men, from philos loving +anēr man; used as a name for a lover in literary works
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Word Origin and History for philandering



1737, from the noun meaning "a lover" (1700), from Philander, popular name for a lover in stories, drama, and poetry, from Greek adjective philandros "with love for people," perhaps mistaken as meaning "a loving man," from phil- "loving" (see philo-) + andr-, stem of aner "man" (see anthropo-). Related: Philandered; philandering.

Online Etymology Dictionary, © 2010 Douglas Harper
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