verb (used with object), verb (used without object), ca·joled, ca·jol·ing.
to persuade by flattery or promises; wheedle; coax.
Origin: 1635–45; < Frenchcajoler to cajole or chatter like a jaybird, apparently derivative of *cajole birdcage (< Late Latincaveola < Latincave(a) cage + -olaole1) + -er infinitive suffix
1640s, from Fr. cajoler "to cajole, wheedle, coax," perhaps a blend of M.Fr. cageoler "to chatter like a jay" (16c., from gajole, southern dim. of geai "jay"), and O.Fr. gaioler "to cage, entice into a cage" (see jail).