misery loves company
Fellow sufferers make unhappiness easier to bear, as in She secretly hoped her friend would fail, toomisery loves company. Words to this effect appeared in the work of Sophocles (c. 408 b.c.) and other ancient writers; the earliest recorded use in English was about 1349.
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