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[dis-taf, -tahf] /ˈdɪs tæf, -tɑf/
a staff with a cleft end for holding wool, flax, etc., from which the thread is drawn in spinning by hand.
a similar attachment on a spinning wheel.
  1. a woman or women collectively.
  2. women's work.
Sometimes Offensive. noting, pertaining to, characteristic of, or suitable for a female.
See also distaff side.
before 1000; Middle English distaf, Old English distæf, equivalent to dis- (cognate with Low German diesse bunch of flax on a distaff; cf. dizen) + stæf staff
Usage note
A distaff is the stick onto which wool or flax is wound in spinning. Since spinning was traditionally done by females, distaff took on figurative meanings relating to women or women’s work. In the sense of “female,” the noun distaff is archaic, but the adjective is in current use: distaff chores, a distaff point of view; the distaff side of the family. Women who find the term offensive are probably aware of its origin in female stereotypes. Another current use of the adjective is in reference to horses: a distaff race is for fillies or mares. Unabridged
Based on the Random House Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2015.
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Examples from the web for distaff
  • That, and the songs, should excite every distaff customer in the house and undoubtedly the gentlemen will go for it too.
  • It won't change, though, if the distaff side talks to themselves.
  • So perhaps there is room for more sporting consideration from the distaff side.
  • Howbeit go to thy chamber and mind thine own housewiferies, the loom and distaff, and bid thy handmaids ply their tasks.
  • So the advice industry for the distaff half is still going strong.
British Dictionary definitions for distaff


the rod on which flax is wound preparatory to spinning
(modifier) of or concerning women: offensive to distaff members of the audience
Word Origin
Old English distæf, from dis- bunch of flax + stæfstaff1; see dizen
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Word Origin and History for distaff

Old English distæf "stick that holds flax for spinning," from dis- "bunch of flax" (cf. Middle Low German dise, Low German diesse "a bunch of flax on a distaff;" see bedizen) + stæf "stick, staff" (see staff).

A synonym in English for "the female sex, female authority in the family," since at least the late 1400s, probably because in the Middle Ages spinning was typically done by women. St. Distaff's Day was Jan. 7, when "women resumed their spinning and other ordinary employments after the holidays" [OED].

Online Etymology Dictionary, © 2010 Douglas Harper
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distaff in the Bible

(Heb. pelek, a "circle"), the instrument used for twisting threads by a whirl (Prov. 31:19).

Easton's 1897 Bible Dictionary
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