In early October, Health Republic allowed me to submit a “grievance claim” which I filed, along with a pile of backup documents.
You start with the grievance, then move to the fantasy of retribution, then to guilt, and then to an original childhood fear.
We do our cause more harm than good if we get outrageously outraged over every slight and grievance.
c.1300, "state of being aggrieved," from Old French grevance "harm, injury, misfortune, trouble, suffering," from grever "to harm, to burden" (see grieve). In reference to a cause of such a condition, from late 15c.